Live in a small city or big town, whichever you prefer. Live out in the country. Hubby works for Target and I am a sahm that homeschools. I am 41 and have been happily married to the love of my life for 21/22 years. We have 3 children: girl 18, son 12, girl 10 and I am looking forward to using the tools here to help in tweaking my home and homelife.